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Saturday, March 12, 2022

Defining the Main Substyles- Sweet, Gothic, and Classical

 Do you want to look like someone may mistake you for a cake? How about an Addams? Maybe a young Victorian child? Sweet. Gothic. Classical. Each of the main sub-styles has its own character and personality and its own group of dedicated fans. Sweet may feel like a hard candy but gothic decadent chocolate cake and classical a nice soft cookie easy to look at and eat. But to go about defining them simply is difficult in my mind and in the minds of beginners and people who haven't been in the fashion long. A sweet print on a black dress may come off as gothic and a white dress with a gothic style as a classical look or even a darker classical as gothic, or a light floral as sweet. But I think I may have figured out how to tell these slightly confusing instances apart. And as a result how to define them.

    We will start with Classical possibly the most confusing of the 3 to really define and make an opinion on. Classical Lolita can look like anything from a beautiful floral print on a pink background to a dark wine OP dress with a Victorian or Edwardian styled sleeve and neckline. The defining attributes though in my opinion can be the neckline and how the dress is cut. A classical dress will normally have a higher neckline in an OP or a more square neckline in a JSK and the blouse will often be high necked as well with a good deal of ruffle around it. the color pallet is often muted pinks, dark wines, browns, dark blues, dark greens, and off whites. Classical is a slightly more mature-looking substyle like that of a Victorian or Edwardian woman. Classical Lolita is very much going for an elegant but cute look.

Gothic is quite a bit easier to recognize. Lots of black, dark reds, and dark blues. The motifs are usually things that you would instantly recognize as "goth" such as bats, black cats, crosses, Christian and Catholic and even Satanic iconography, and general gothic motifs. Gothic JSKs are generally cut a bit lower in the bust than their classical cousins nothing too dramatic usually, but enough to notice. Some gothic necklines have embellishments such as being shaped or trimmed in some way. Generally both Sweet and Classical have a gothic variant with more dark colors and more gothic motifs, such as Bitter-Sweet or Dark Classical. Some gothic blouses will have collars in the shape of bat wings or spider webs and often will come in black, a stark white, dark red, or dark blue with detailing in a contrasting color. Gothic Lolita is very much a dark and very mysterious feeling part of the fashion.

And now on to my personal favorite substyle. Sweet Lolita. With pinks, Saxon blue, lavender, teal, light yellows, and stark whites and the main colors, sweet lolita is a very loud and colorful substyle. It is very noticeable in a crowd and a Sweet Lolita may often get mistaken for a cosplayer, I know I have been. with the popular motifs of candies, pastries, fruits, and sweets of all kinds it is easy to see where the style gets its' sweet monicker but other popular prints include animals, tea parties, and even carnival scenes. compared to its; more demure cousins Sweet Lolita can seem like A LOT. but it has a very dedicated set of fans and is well-loved within the community. Sweet Lolita feels like walking into a candy shop as a child and being able to try all of the candy and sweets they have to offer. 

These are not all of the substyles of Lolita by a long shot but they are the 3 main substyles and the ones that most other substyles usually fall under. And like all things in fashion, it is okay to mix things up a bit and make something totally your own. Lolita is about the fashion but it's also about the freedom of self-expression and the right to love yourself loudly. So carry on and love yourself in your own way, be it dressed like a giant cake, a bouquet of flowers, or a porcelain doll you would find in a goths bedroom. 

Thans all for this post, I do hope you found it interesting and informative and maybe even entertaining. Thank you so very much for reading and I hope to see you back here soon.

                                                    Yours Always

                                                                    Rose

The "Rules of Lolita" As Defined by Me

        As we all know our beloved fashion has many rules. Some seem silly until put into practice, like bloomers under dresses or skirts being below a certain length. Some are just part of the fashion at this point, like always needing some kind of petticoat. Here are the basic rules as I personally follow them.

Unless it isn't needed (weather, just hanging out inside, such and such) I have all of these parts to my coordinates
  • Headdress (Always)
  • An appropriate hairstyle (Always)
  • earrings (sometimes)
  • necklace (sometimes)
  • blouse (depends on the coord)
  • Main Piece (always)
  • Bloomers (always, fight me)
  • Petticoats (always)
  • socks, stockings, or tights (depends on the shoes)
  • shoes (Always unless inside someone's home and they ask you to remove them)
  • bag (Usually)
Some of these things are just personal preference some are actually required. 

What is actually required is; 
  • A headdress
  •  A blouse (unless it's an OP you can wear without one.)
  • JSK/Skirt/OP
  • petticoat
  • bloomers
  • legwear
  • shoes if outside
Some would argue that a bag of some kind is required because most dresses don't have pockets. I don't think it's required especially if you wear it at home a lot, but if you're going out it's best to carry a bag or have someone with you to carry your things. 

Now in Lolita, there are quite a few rules as to how your clothes should look.
  • You should always have some kind of petticoat on, even if it's a casual coord. 
  • You should have some kind of headdress on even if it's just a bow clip in your hair while it's down or in a ponytail.
  • You shouldn't be showing much if any cleavage on your chest. ( there are exceptions to this)
  • Lolita is a very modest fashion, so you should do your makeup modestly. "Less is more" is a general rule ( again there are exceptions )
  • Too many accessories can overwhelm the look so keep them to a reasonable amount. ( unless it's decora or OTT then go all out and have as many as you can )
  • If you like it it isn't out of style. ( looking at myself and rectangle headdresses)
  • Your look should be balanced, your skirt is big and poofy, add volume to your hair.
  • You shouldn't be showing a ton of skin, little to no cleavage unless it is Ero-Lolita and even then it is a very modest kind of sexy.
  • You shouldn't look sloppy with stains and bits of fluff or food on you, or your makeup a mess.
  • And lastly, you should enjoy wearing what you have on. Lolita is after all fashion, and unless you like it, even if you are the only one who does, it won't serve its purpose. 
I do have my own rules for etiquette, manners, and actions for when I am in Lolita which I will put in another post, But for now, this is where I will say until next time my friends. Thank you so much for reading this post and if you have comments, questions, or suggestions for things I need to add please feel free to comment below. Thank you all and have a lovely day.
                                                Always Yours
                                                                    Rose




Wednesday, March 2, 2022

Well back to it!

 As of the end of March 2022 I will be back, and blogging again! I am so excited to be able to come back to this project that is such a wonderful part of my day and my life in general. I am also working on a few things that I want to run by the community as a whole and see if they are a good idea. So be looking forward to those posts coming up soon! Thank you everyone for your patience and understanding.

                                                  Yours Always 

                                                                Rose